As an icon among openly gay musicians, the news of Frank Ocean’s bisexual revelation resonated with rapper/activist Tim’m West among many gay/lesbian music artists whose entire music career has been defined by their sexualities.  While we find triumph in the support of Ocean by his peers in the music industry, it is even greater to our LGBT community that we openly embrace him as one of our own.  West, who celebrated his milestone birthday with a new love and life perspective, penned an open letter to embrace the “Novacane” crooner.

What we appreciate mostly is that West admits that he hasn’t been familiar with Ocean’s work instead of pretending to bandwagon jumping on Ocean’s newfound celebrity to relate like many “new gay fans” have.

Read West’s endearing letter below.

Good day, Brotha Frank Ocean

I am a member and founder of the now-defunct Deep Dickollective referenced in the NY Times piece written by James C. McKinley, Jr. and published on my 40th birthday. We achieved a great deal of critical success in the 10 years we moved crowds Bay-area and beyond; and those years offered a platform for continued work as an openly gay-identified solo artist. It was refreshing to be honored for perhaps being a stepping stone in creating a world where you could reveal yourself with a great deal more support than the forced invisibility so many talented gay and bisexual artists have been met with. You present an opportunity to be a game-changer when many have sought a formula for acceptance.

I can’t honestly say that I was familiar with your body of work, prior to your coming out letter. Many people assumed that I knew you but I won’t front. I should be familiar with you, based on your talent alone, but as an indie artist with little hope that the market will ever honor the “real” of how black men live and breathe beyond the often hyperbolic, braggadocio-filled caricatures we see in media, I’d pretty much tuned out. Still, I can say that I’m proud of you. Your letter alone made me a fan; but on the eve of your highly anticipated release I felt I’d be remiss not to offer my support for the cultural impact your disclosure may have on the youth cultures shaped largely by Hip-Hop & Soul music.

I am writing namely to congratulate you for your courage to “let people in” rather than the “coming out” many call it. “Coming out” makes such a spectacle of the simple truth about what love can move one to do. Your letter and your loving are simply the “real” so often referenced in a Hip-Hop that seems to be more committed to swag than seriousness. My good friend Karamo Brown once challenged me to see self-revelation about sexuality, not as “coming out” of hiding, but “letting others in” to your truth. The former is so often associated with shame and secrecy, that I’ve grown to appreciate the distinction. My reaction to your letter and the responses that it has generated (many affirming) is probably more ambivalent than some might expect. It has become trendy for people to support being real in Hip-Hop about homosexuality, even when little support and resources are put in the service of elevating LGBT artists or supporting a world where they can be heard. Being an ally doesn’t mean you don’t join the mob who decides to beat the gay down. It’s the more active fight, before the fight, that honors human dignity enough to keep the mob from even forming.

Remember that your triumph is personal. You capture the poetry inherent in “the love that dare not speak its name” when you courageously decide to sing it. Understand this: Those who take issue with your sexuality? They have the issue. Please don’t confuse other people’s “baggage” with your clarity of feeling– beautifully executed in the letter-gone-public originally written in December 2011. Feel no pressure to “represent” anything beyond a brotha who has decided to huMAN up and honor the volition of his heart. Your loving is political because it shouldn’t have to be. You describe feelings similar to my 20 year search to find the life-partner I’m convinced I’ll grow old with. Remember that as a lover of music, and songwriter, you have the ability, freedom, and platform to represent a range of human emotions and experiences. That said, as much as the market will try to shape who you are into a product, never betray your process. Continue to “keep it real” in ways many who criticize you would have never been able to do. Hold those accountable who say they have your back to put their money where their mouth is: market success requires support I believe you already have and will continue to have. It’s great timing. With the President’s recent endorsement of Gay Marriage, many are being asked to declare where they stand. Stand for something, brother.

Lastly, when love knocks on your door again, remember: It’s not about Hip-Hop, or “realness”, or Gay Marriage platforms, or the 2012 election; provided it’s even a male who you decide to share your love with. Your song is a truth that, like opening your heart to love, quite simply takes your breath away. At 40 I’m embracing that feeling like I never have before. Beyond beats and rhymes, there is the breath, once broken and labored, that sustains you. Breathe easy knowing you’ve already arrived and worked hard for the success you’ll receive. Nothing can be further from your truth.

Props and Congratulations.

Tim’m T. West